Recently, I was diagnosed with A.A.A.D.D. which is Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder.   This is how it manifests:

I decide to water my garden. As I turn on the hose in the drive way, I look over at my car and decide it needs washing but as I start toward the garage, I notice mail on the porch table that I brought up from the mail box earlier so I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car.

I lay my car keys on the table, put the junk mail in the garbage can under the table, and notice that the can is full. So, I decide to put the bills back on the table and take out the garbage first. But then I think, since I’m going to be near the mailbox when I take out the garbage anyway, I may as well pay the bills first.

I take my check book off the table, and see that there is only one check left. My extra checks are in my desk in the study, so I go inside the house to my desk where I find the can of Pepsi I’d been drinking. I’m going to look for my checks, but first I need to push the Pepsi aside so that I don’t accidentally knock it over. The Pepsi is getting warm, and I decide to put it in the refrigerator to keep it cold.

As I head toward the kitchen with the Pepsi, a vase of flowers on the counter catches my eye–they need water. I put the Pepsi on the counter and discover my reading glasses that I’ve been searching for all morning. I decide I better put them back on my desk, but first I’m going to water the flowers.

I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container with water and suddenly spot the TV remote. Someone left it on the kitchen table. I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV, I’ll be looking for the remote, but I won’t remember that it’s on the kitchen table, so I decide to put it back in the den where it belongs, but first I’ll water the flowers.

I pour some water in the flowers, but quite a bit of it spills on the floor. So, I set the remote back on the table, get some towels and wipe up the spill. Then, I head down the hall trying to remember what I was planning to do.

At the end of the day: the car isn’t washed, the bills aren’t paid,  there is a warm can of Pepsi sitting on the counter, the flowers don’t have enough water, there is still only 1 check in my check book, I can’t find the remote, I can’t find my glasses, and I don’t remember what I did with the car keys. Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done today, I’m really baffled because I know I was busy all the damn day, and I’m really tired.  I realize this is a serious problem, and I’ll try to get some help for it, but first I’ll check my e-mail….

(Don’t laugh — if this isn’t you yet, your day is coming!!)

For lunch today my wife had the choice between a cup of soup, a pot pie, or a banana split made with bananas, 3 scoops of Strawberry, Chocolate and Vanilla Haagen-Dazs, hot fudge, whipped cream and cherries. This was her choice.

I noticed a very nice selection of plants and flowers around Lakeland Medical Center, while taking a walk today.  ( Hollywood Road, St. Joseph, MI.)

“Our Flag Does Not Fly Because The Wind Moves It.

It Flies with The Last Breath of Each Soldier Who Died Protecting It.”

March 22: It began and continues. Family wise it has been a trying time these last few months and continues to be so. There has been progress and we continue to strive forward.